I’m the male half of a long time married couple (over 30 years). We’ve had a fun and full sex life and as my wife is bi, we’ve had sex with more than 20 different women (as a couple). About 4 years ago, my wife started to talk about how hot it would be to see me having sex one-on-one with another woman while also sending me links to videos that she thought were hot. The common theme of these videos was that the guy was having sex with someone who wasn’t his wife while his wife was watching. So, after a lot of conversations, we explored this fantasy and to be honest, it didn’t turn out great as it seemed to uncover a number of insecurities and issues that we both had and frankly, weren’t equipped to handle.

Fast forward several years. Having worked through our issues, my wife recently brought this fantasy up again and has reaffirmed that this really is a serious desire of hers. Frankly, her perspective on this is light years ahead of where it was the first time and she is much clearer about the depth of her feelings about this and much more convicted in that it’s something she really wants.

To cut a long story short, my wife is out of town and I have a date tomorrow night with a woman i met online(let’s call her Vicki). Vicki knows I’m married and my wife is fully aware I have a date and was super excited about it when I told her. Not only that, my wife is actively encouraging me to take Vicki back to our home after our date and give her all the details after we’re done. I don’t know a lot about Vicki but during a phone call tonight, told my wife what I did know (Vicki is 5’2 with a 36DDD chest to which my wife replied “damn!”). While we were having this conversation, my wife furiously masturbated while telling me what she wanted me to do with Vicki after I brought her back to our home.

Is there a point to this post? Not really. I guess I’m still somewhat amazed we’re back in this place although I will say, I feel a lot more comfortable meeting other women than I did several years ago. If people are interested, I’ll post a follow up on Sunday.