Howdy Yall!
I am hoping someone can help me understand something so I can make my wife happier. My wife and I have been a part of the lifestyle for 10 years with no problem and we have never been happier. I have my fun and she gets stories. It has worked well for us.
About a year ago she let me know that she wanted me to get a girlfriend. I took this to mean a fuck buddy and was confused as I already had some. She clarified that she wanted me to date someone and fall in love. Not lose any love for her, but add someone else to my life.
My wife has zero interest in women
I asked her for some clarification, ground rules, anything that would help me understand and be more comfortable. She lets me know that she doesn’t really know how to explain the appeal, but continues to bring it up. She knows however that it isn’t something I’ll try until I understand.
Anyone have any good questions I could ask her to get the conversation moving in the right direction? Or any insight into what is appealing about this situation to you?
Thanks Yall!
We recently got a girlfriend and it's GLORIOUS. Someone exclusive to us...we go on trips, we trust her, she trusts us.. it's perfect.
I'm also not gay or bi...lol. basically I totally get your girl and why she wants this.. lol
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We are not poly, we have a girlfriend. I believe it's not the same. Having a girlfriend means more then just sex to her. It means she gets a bestie and that she can share her man with. She can grow to trust her and her you. Fuck buddies have to be constantly vetted, girlfriends don't.