For me I'm interested in degradation/humiliation only. I have no interest in the stag/vixen sharing idea where it's pretty much just a threesome, I literally want the cake to steal my man and leave me feeling helpless. I prefer not watching so that I can fill in the blanks in my head which tends to be much hotter for me so I can get worked up thinking of what they might've done. I also prefer if my man doesn't tell me the full truth of what he's doing with the cakes and I want them to talk bad about me when I'm not there. I want him to tell her she's better than me, tighter, hotter, and I want him to come home late and blame me for getting upset by it. But I would be silent and accepting of the situation even if it hurts. I want to my husband to spend my money on the cake and I just want to make a complete fool of myself paying for him to take her to nice dinners, buy her gifts, and take her on expensive vacations while I stay at home and clean dutifully.

Aspects I dislike are 'encouraging' the other woman to do stuff with my man. I want as little contact as possible with the cake and I'm not interested in my own pleasure. I cum more from the idea of what they're doing than any direct involvement. I don't want a threesome and I don't want to have the power to tell the cake what she can or can't do with my husband. They are the ones with the power and I just have to accept whatever happens. I'm not into the 'daddy' kink and I find animal words a major turn off (piggy, cow, kitty, dog, etc.). I also don't have any interest in foot fetishes.