It's a long shot, but throwing this out there on the off chance that someone here might fit what I'm looking for...

After years of exploring the kink scene quite intensely, I'm at a point now where I just want to settle down into a long-term relationship (I'd love to have kids at some point). Through this journey I've enjoyed everything from D/s dynamics, rough, impact, degradation, toys, restraints, group, outdoor, sex parties, shibari, through to more taboo stuff, CNC, watersports etc.

But one thing above all else has been my favourite - cuckqueans.

I'm on all the usual apps but just wanted to see if I could find someone here who shares this kink! I know it's not super common, but I've had it before and loved it.

Yes, I'm looking for someone who enjoys seeing me have sex with other women. In previous cuckquean relationships, my partner has had various levels of involvement, such as: arranging dates, passively watching but not involved, being actively involved, not being present but visiting me after to suck me clean, watching videos of it later during sex etc.

You don't need to be into all of those dynamics (we'd discuss what works for you), but ideally some form of cuckqueaning.

In terms of wider kink - I enjoy everything from super rough or degrading sex to completely vanilla or sensual sex, but nothing is a must have - you can be a hardcore masochistic degradee sex slave or a vanilla newbie. At this point, I'm more interested in connection, shared interests and making a lasting relationship. I'm very happy to help you explore kink if you're curious about anything, but no pressure. I have a lot of toys and equipment too if you're interested in any of that, but you really don't need to be.

Anyway, I know this may seem like a long shot, but hopefully you're out there!

About me: 38, based in London, good looking and in good shape (I naturally keep a slim-muscular-athletic build, though could settle into a dad bod if that's your thing). I'm fun, friendly and sociable, intelligent, a little geeky (interested in boardgames, science and philosophy), enjoy travelling, going to restaurants/bars, skiing, playing guitar/piano, live comedy and music. I own my own house and work in law. I'm happy to share pics in chat.

About you: Hopefully you're looking for something longterm, open to cuckqueaning, fun and easy going. I'd love it if you had some sort of geeky aspect to you - it can be your job, an interest or hobby. Size-wise, slim to curvy, but preferably not BBW. If this is you, I would love to hear from you!