There's a lot of terminology tossed around, I think cake is correct.

We are super new to this. I finally opened up about wanting to watch him sleep with other women or send him on playdates and he has been stoked since I brought it up lol.

We're trying to take it slow and navigate this with as few major issues as possible. I know I'm not super into the humiliation stuff that I've come across so far. I do really like the idea of "loaning him to women" particularly ladies who have been single for awhile and would appreciate a good lay...of that makes sense? Idk, like I said I honestly have just a bare understanding of this.

I would really love to talk to any women that are into the being the cake and who could maybe help me/us hash some more specifics out. We are not looking to play with couples or solo men right this minute. We tried once and weren't really feeling it.

We are open to this being a casual conversation, short or long-term. Or possibly developing into...something else? This is being written with zero expectations and open minds, lets just put it that way.

Please be nice, this is my first attempt at talking to or possibly even flirting a little with another woman, and I can be pretty socially awkward sometimes. We are both happy and willing to verify and you should be as well. Please don't message us if you can't. We are both 32 if that matters.

Alright, well I suppose we will see how this goes.