Me and my wife messed around with hotwifing. She wanted to see me with another woman but managed to start fights and cock block me when it got close to happening. I say she can be submissive to a fault. I couldn't expect her to respect boundaries if she was alone with a new man and we have fights over her not standing up for herself even with other women at work and such. I've seen her very confrontational with women if she's jealous. It's almost exclusively been younger black women (she's black) when she thought they were flirting with me. I don't know if she is more comfortable being disrespectful towards them or they just happen to be the ones to trigger the jealousy.

With hotwifing she wanted me to be in charge and say when and who to fuck and see I liked it. Since we became more open about sex I'm seeing the lack of female friends is probably because she fucked most of their husbands. And she seems to be proud of the fact if you get her talking about it. If we met a vanilla couple she would put on her innocent nice girl act but if we were alone with the husband and we both fucked her she would be happy with herself and laugh at how dumb the wife was and keep this act up. So she is sadistic towards other women but not openly so. With her being what I call submissive how could you go from this to getting off on the wife watching? Is it possible? Or at least not being shy about wanting to fuck the husband. This is hypothetical. If I ever met a local cuckquean couple I would like to see this without saying anything sexual to my wife before. Or if I did not that the wife preferred watching but were just average swingers.