Husband has a date this week for drinks and then back to our place, while I wait for them to finish at a neighborhood bar. I'm nervous as hell now that it's really happening and would love a pep talk!

• we have a way for me to call Red and everything stops at any time in place. She and I are in communication and she's very centered around what I want. Husband is being very flexible with my changing needs and wants in the vibe of this and is rolling with it while I figure that out (seeing a date and making it real really started this enough rollercoaster). It seems like we're doing this right but I'm so nervous!!

Edit to add: I won't be there this time because husband says it's a lot of pressure. We're planning on me being present next time, assuming things go well.