37F. Divorced about a year. My ex and I were truly open, and we enjoyed the swinger and hotwife lifestyles — without any sort of cuck dynamic. He simply found it hot to watch me fuck other men. Which I did regularly, and then some.

Now that I’m flying solo as a late 30s woman that isn’t much for monogamy, I’ve found this community and come to realize that I just might be in love with this dynamic. I just might be a damn cake. (What a name! Lol) I’ve been “the other woman” many times but this is so different, in a wonderful way. Getting to have intense encounters with married men without the risk of a scorned wife stabbing me is amazing.

So my question is this…. Are many of the “cakes” in this community former or current hotwives/vixens?