My boyfriend and I have always included other women in positive ways. We’ve had loads of threesomes and go to sex clubs regularly. It never occurred to me that our existing lifestyle is essentially me being a cuckquean until now.

We’re a Dom/sub couple (he’s a sadist and I’m a masochist) and lately we’ve both been really wanting to add women who only fuck him while the two of them make me watch and degrade me. We’re both experienced in swinger and BDSM circles but we don’t know how to even get started with something like this.

Is there anyone else with experience with this particular type of being cucked? How do you go about finding a cuckcake with this specific kink? Do you just openly say, “Hey fuck my boyfriend while you guys degrade me please!”

It seems easier to find cuckcakes in swinger and pick up scenes but I’m worried they’d be put off by the degradation. In the BDSM world it’s easy to find people who like degradation but humiliation based cucking is so rare with women that it’s not even really searchable.

Where did y’all go? How did you start? Are cuckcakes typically put off by this type of request?