We are 40 F and 43 M. I brought this idea to him and he’s open. I crave and need to see him with other women sexually. I don’t have any desire to be with other dudes and really don’t think about that. Every thought I have surrounds different scenarios with him and the ultimate goal is expanding the ways he experiences pleasure. Though I’m not organically wanting to be with anyone else, I would do anything he desperately asked only if I knew it would make him cum harder and get excited from it. That being said, I also know he has zero desire to see me with other guys. I’m more into watching vs being talked down to by whatever random chic is with him. Though, I’ll submit to him when it comes to sex, I can be VERY opinionated and outspoken in life. I’m more about everyone having fun and it being positive than having to elevate oneself at someone’s else’s expense. ( different if they’re asking for that up front and it’s part of the contract) . Anyways/- with all that being said , what’s the best subreddit group to be a part of to learn more, to find connections and to really be able to put a name to what I am ( assuming cuckquean?) . Just nice to be able to name things and go down the rabbit hole of research.