I've been with my wife since we were teenagers. Now we are mid 30s. After we had kids (8 years ago) she told me about this fantasy. I told her I didn't want to do it but had no problem enjoying it with dirty talk and stuff.

So that is all we did. Her libido has steadily grown since then. All it takes is striking a cord to her proclivity and she is dripping. She can almost match my libido now and I never imagined that was even possible.

After a few years she asked again and it was a much slower "I'd rather not".

Well it has been a few more years and she asked again. I started working out and have gotten in really good shape. I've gotten even more attention that normal and it is driving her crazy, I love it.

So now I'm considering it.

But for one thing we've never had sex (or even anything else) with anyone else. I actually proposed swinging for the first time instead (for some reason that seems like a more balanced alternative lifestyle than cuckqueaning) as I felt we should both have sex with someone else and she seemed kinda disgusted with the idea.

So she has asked if we could try on our out of state vacation this summer. I'm really considering it.

Anything I should know? Look out for? Be aware of?

Thanks