My husband has had bad luck on his dates/meetups lately. The girls have been flakey, giving mixed signals, and don't communicate well. They have out and out lied about themselves, played games, expressed not giving a shit about me, and expressed that they were upset that he wasn't more available/didn't hate me (ie. not married and in love). Girls he's talked to online also tend to flake out a lot and disappear. I guess some of them assumed the reason he was doing this was because he really didn't like me, and so when they found out he does they lost interest and started to make more drama.

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I know this is somewhat par for the course in dating, but he didn't have much experience before marrying me, and is taking it really hard.

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He is happy with me, our sex life is great, and we are best friends. I think he's so handsome, charming, smart, and cute. But when he feels low about his dating not working out, I feel horrible. It makes me feel pretty worthless.

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At which point, we both end up feeling worthless - him even more so because he now knows that he's making me feel horrible too.

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Does anyone have any advice for this? How can he be more resilient? How can I be? How can I support him while going through all of these little mini breakups (which are almost always somewhat drama filled).

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Also why is it so hard to find nice, open minded women who are open to being cool with me. I think I'm pretty good. I don't have restrictions on him/them at all. I just want them to be happy together. But still, its too hard and not enough.