The Couple of the Month for November is u/FitandFlirtyHotwife

Congratulation and very well done! It's because of couples like you that we are now almost up to 80k members!Now, let's get to know Mr. & Mrs. November!

Bio: Young couple in our mid to late 20s exploring the hotwife/cuckold lifestyle for over 6 years now and wouldn’t have it any other way!

1.) Q: How did you get into the hotwifing/cuckolding lifestyle? Who brought it up first and how did the other react initially?

A: So I actually stumbled upon his tumblr feed which had a bunch of cuckold porn/captions he left open on his iPad. After bringing it up to him we then got to talking about it more and he told me how bad he wanted to to see me with other guys. I was shocked as some of it was pretty extreme and I had never known anything about cuckolding prior. To be honest I was quite taken aback initially and took a few years & multiple ongoing discussions before I started to open up to the idea of finding my 1st bull.

2.) Q: When was your first experience? How did you meet the bull? How was it?

A: My first ever experience was about 6 years ago now via a craigslist post he made but to be honest it was horrible however despite the guy claiming to have a bunch of experience with hotwives and stuff. At the end of the day it turned into everything revolving around him... He wouldn't let my husband watch and despite being all for it in discussions, also ended up being reluctant with sending pics or videos (one of our rules for encounters) or involving my husband at all. Gave it a couple more shots not too long after and those guys were okay but lived too far to make it a regular thing and we were living in a pretty small town at the time making it hard to find other potential bulls.

3.) Q: What's you relationship like now? About how often do you get to play with a third?

A: The relationship between my husband and I is and always has been incredible. We have always had amazing chemistry and great sex life but since exploring the hotwife/cuckold side of things it has only gotten that much better! The lead up and tension that builds before meeting up with and getting fucked by a new guy is amazing! ...not to mention the whole aftercare/reclaiming side of things with my husband that continue to just bring us closer and closer. As I mentioned, 1st experience about 6 years ago now up until recently play with a third was very infrequent (outside of a few months along the way when I'd frequently have a hung coworker come over after shifts and fuck me in the spare while my husband would listen from our room. Unfortunately he was also reluctant to have my husband watch or join end ended up turning out to be pretty crazy so had to cut it off...)As of lately I have had much better luck with meeting high quality guys that have all been great and much more representative of a true "bull". In terms of the lifestyle I'd say we probably fall into more of a "stag/vixen" dynamic (not into chastity, denial, crossdressing, extreme humiliation, forced bi or anything like that) of a relationship with me getting the chance to "play" about once a week or so. The whole lifestyle though is still just extra fun though so when everyday life gets to be busy, it's the 1st thing that gets pushed to the bottom of priority list as even without it, we have an amazing life and relationship on our own.

4.) Q: How do you typically find bulls? What do you look for in a bull? Any specific requirements?

A: Overall, finding good bulls has been extremely challenging since starting out! We tried craigslist and lifestyle sites with poor success. Tried coworkers which ended up being a horrible idea in the end (it's true you shouldn't shit where you eat 😝 ). Did find a good guy at a lifestyle party once but he lives too far away and parties often don't work out with our schedule. Best luck by far we've learned over the past 6 months or so has actually been reddit! As of lately, cannot even begin to keep up with the amount of requests to meet up from seemingly "qualified" bulls lol. Have a fairly detailed post outlining some specifics but in general the guy must be attractive, hung, and respectful (okay with and the whole hotwife/cuckold dynamic overall).

5.) Q: What is the Husband's role in the relationship? Does he ever get involved during playtime?

A: Most of the time he likes just likes to watch/film, when I'm with another guy until they finish at which point he loves to clean me up 🤤 either before or after getting some sloppy seconds 💦 Occasionally he will join in on some MFM action with me but usually prefers to just "enjoy the show" 😉 He does not play with other women ...or guys for that matter lol. We are both straight (sorry ladies!).

6.) Q: What was your best experience so far in the lifestyle?

A: That’s a tough question to answer. I can’t say what my best experience has been… I’ve had a lot of great experiences and each one has been different yet nothing short of amazing. I can tell you what makes it the best experience…Finding a bull who is respectful towards me and my husband(he is the reason I am able to do this 😉), easy going, has a sense of humor (I mean you kinda have to being in the lifestyle) confident, and can just have fun!

7.) Q: Do you have any concerns or fears when it comes to the lifestyle?

A: Health and safety. Condoms suck so finding a guy who who is trustworthy with proof of regular/recent negative STD tests is very important and 1st meet with new guy always in public without expectation to play on 1st date.

8.) Q: What haven't you tried so far that you'd like to?

A: a gangbang 😈

9.) Q: What advice do you have for other couples looking to explore this lifestyle?

A: Patience and being there for your partner while understanding your fantasy may not be theirs and that the relationship between you two should come far above and beyond ever thinking about bringing another guy into the mix. This is not the way to go about fixing any potential problems lol. As with everything in life, strong communication is paramount as well. It can be awkward talking about this type of thing or any "kink" early on and took us a while before we could completely open up with each other but it is so important to to have those seemingly uncomfortable conversations. There are many good blogs and podcasts out there as well but will put a plug here for Venus Cuckoldress who is a fantastic resource for additional advice via her podcast/blog.

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