I have been open with my gf about what turns me on - and she’s been open to using toys, putting down my size, and talking about how other people (no names would fuck better than me) but always closed off to another guy or talking about ex’s. We chatted more over the weekend and it came up the reason why she didn’t like to bring up guys from her past is that they wernt always the best experience. She was very tight to me - (so that says something 🤣) but there has been a couple of guys where they were to big to fit and I don’t even think they were overly big. We got an average sized toy and she struggled with that as well

How do I work with her make her feel better about her self and her body as I really feel that this issue would be one of her biggest concerns and road blocks about adding another guy because there is a good chance she wouldn’t be able to fit him in.

Has any one experienced This them selves or thoughts on how we work through this?