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Women of the sub - what do you consider premature ejaculation?
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Hello! Size often gets discussed but I'm pretty curious what the women of the sub feel about stamina, so I have some questions if anyone has the time to discuss! Feel free to copy and paste these questions into a comment to make replying to them easier if you'd like, or just write freeform if you prefer.

My questions:

  1. how important is sexual stamina in a sex partner and how important is it for a romantic partner (like a cuck)?
  2. if you were going to call a guy "good/great in bed", at least how long would he usually need to last during penetration? (obviously there is variance between sessions but what about on average, in - let's say - minutes).
  3. what amount of avg. time (in maybe minutes again) would a guy need to last where below that amount of time you'd consider him a premature ejaculator? like if a guy is usually less than X # of minutes, he's a premature ejaculator and you'd tell a trusted friend that.
  4. would you consider a guy cumming in just a couple of minutes (or whatever your threshold is) in 20% of your sexual encounters to still be a premature ejaculator? or would he need to cum too soon in a third of your encounters? half? most? all? just once in a while? how often basically could a guy cum really quickly before your brain started to label them as inadequate in this way.
  5. do you consider your cuck a premature ejaculator, and if so did you always feel that way or only after opening the relationship and experiencing other men?
  6. do you care if a guy has to pause mid-thrust (not pulling out, just stopping moving) every 10-20 seconds in order to not cum if that allows them to last longer (let's say they can double their time or even reach your criteria for being "good in bed") or do you still consider them a premature ejaculator if they can only last with those frequent pauses?
  7. do you enjoy that your cuck is a premature ejaculator if he is or does it make you resentful?
  8. if you enjoy it, is it because you feel it shows how desirable you are or a different reason?
  9. would your cuck using toys/dildos/strap-ons/sheaths allow them to make up for or even overcompensate for being quick to cum? or does it take another guy providing that longer experience to fulfill your needs?
  10. have your standards for stamina changed or gone up since starting this lifestyle, and if so - how much have they transformed? has it become a bigger priority / more important factor in dating/sex than it used to be?
  11. would it be possible for a guy you consider to be a premature ejaculator to be great enough sexually in other ways that you'd tell a friend he's good in bed, or is being a premature ejaculator sufficient by itself that you'd say he sorta sucked (even if he was great in other ways and you still wanted to date him / loved him)?

Thanks for any details you can share! I might create some similar future posts and make a data visualization of responses and share back.

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