So I'll try to condense this as much as possible.

My husband and I are relatively new to the lifestyle, but we're involved with a bull that has been fantastic for us and is completely fulfilling our needs.

Now my husband was not at this point originally, but meeting up with my bull has become and regular weekly thing and we also see each other for normal things like getting lunch (we work pretty close to each other). The more we've involved my husband, the more we've kind of gravitated towards a cuck dynamic. Not full on like most people here, but at least enough to where he's now openly encouraging me to spend time with my bull and enjoys the power dynamic of me being with him vs my husband.

My husband is the kind of guy that when he gets into something he wants to do ALL of it RIGHT NOW. Sometimes that can be fun, but when it involves something as serious as our marriage I'm much more cautious than I normally would be with his ideas.

Last weekend we made last minute plans with my bull. Since we were all already out at different places, we eventually decided together to have hubby there at my bulls house and get to watch everything from start to finish. He's been in the same house and everything before, but never like in the room for beginning, middle, and end.

So everything went great and everyone had an amazing time. In the time since, hubby has floated the idea of an open relationship between myself and our bull. As in more than just FWB, but something that looks closer to like a bf/gf situation.

My question for the group is is it normal for guys to do that kind of 0-100 with this stuff? Have you done this? Did you have regrets? What does an "open" hotwife relationship honestly entail?

Ty!! -C