For a while now I've enjoyed the thoughts of my girlfriend having sex with other men. I feel it started as she has been with a lot of guys before and while asking her about her life before me I would get more interested in the intimate details until the point when it would really turn me on. In bed I would usually use dirty talk that involved asking her about guys she fucked and telling me what she let them do to her or what she liked to have them do.

Lately more and more I fantasize about her fucking other guys and telling me about it to essentially make me fuck her to reclaim her (hotwifing I suppose). We have a dom/sub relationship in the bedroom and she likes the bad girl/slut sort of dirty talk and it seems to really help. I suppose my main reason for posting to this subreddit is what sort of dirty talk could I use to explore this in a sort of dom/sub fashion that would still have her feel submissive?