Hello there everyone. Longtime lurker. I’m a single woman who is interested in finding a male partner who is into this lifestyle.

I have a good idea of what I’m looking for. I want a man who I can love and care for and enjoy having sex with (be it oral or PIV/PIA). I want a man who will not just support and love me, but encourage me to be the slutty angel I am with other men as a Hotwife or vixen. I’m ok with light humiliation/degradation, but also ok with none.

Here’s my problem:

I’ve read and seen posts that talk about men and/or hot wives/vixens finding hot wives/vixens, getting/introducing their current partners into the lifestyle and finding bulls. However, I haven’t seen a post or discussion that outlines how a woman would go about finding/seeking a stag/cuckold to be in a relationship with. The women I’ve messaged who have tried haven’t had much luck. I want to make sure I’m attracting the right type for a healthy and happy relationship both in and out of the bedroom, but I seem to be at a loss. Is it not possible/realistic for a woman to seek this out? Am I going about it the wrong way? What should I do?

If I missed any posts, I’d appreciate a link or any advice, tips, and resources, etc on how to go about my search and where.

Thank you!