Seeking encouragement and advice as we have not yet done this, and I am quite nervous.

I have ordered a decent sleep mask online which is soon to arrive. The plan is to initiate in bed and get her turned on, before having her wear the mask.

My overall aim is to have her blindfolded for our session of love making and have her imagine it's somebody else fucking her.

She is most likely to get into it if I say that I want to fantasisy role play a foursome with another couple. I will wet shave to get my face smooth as possible, then kiss my way down to simulate the "other woman" giving her head. This part I think she will really enjoy as she has often enjoyed girl on girl videos.

The next part where I introduce the "other man" is where I'm not so sure. Ideally, I want to have her suck my dick as though it is his, before taking me in her pussy. This would be a significant step towards making the hotwifing scenario a reality.

I want to introduce and normalise this kind of play, before we have any kind of "talk" about sharing fantasies.

What do you guys think? Any constructive tips? I've also toyed with the idea of tying her hands (which is something we've done before). Thanks