update

I made the first step in bed last night and told her about this dream I had of her sleeping with someone else and how much it turned me.

She looked surprised but not necessarily in a bad way and then said “well that can’t happen”. She wasn’t disgusted or annoyed and we ended up having sex. I resisted the urge to saying anything further but it feels like it will be so much easier to bring up again 😃

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My wife (35) and I (37) have been together 15 years and have a very strong relationship and sex life.

I have developed a cuckold fetish over the past few years and I’m becoming obsessed with seeing my wife with another man so I want to start the discussion.

My wife has no idea that I feel this way and I’m worried about how she might react.

Does anyone have any suggestions on how I should approach this? Would appreciate any learnings from similar experiences and the steps I should take