Made a little headway with my wife today after explaining my fantasies in a bit of a different way.

We each were on seperates trips this last week and I'm finally on my way home to see her and finally get to ravage her. My hotwife fantasies kick into overdrive. My ideal situation is I'm part of all the fun (which is often only us, esp when we're at home and care about keeping this fantasy from public knowledge) when we're together, but when she's away, I want her to be the teasing dance floor make out slut (and then some extra) she was when I first started chasing her/dating her.

We've talked about that being some of my hotwife fantasy origin story - thinking she was a wild party girl slut when we first started dating (reality is that she was a little more tame than the vibe she put out), but it maybe never clicked for her in this way. What I told her today was that I want to worship her body and compete for her sexually, just like when I chased her when we started dating. I want her to tell me about the guys that tried to get into her pants on her trip (and the ones that actually did get their hands under her dress) and give me an hour to coax an "I'm yours" out of her mouth by working her over with my tongue and fingers with the looming threat of calling up one of those guys to finish the job if I can't. I want her to make me work for it and have a real threat of the punishment waiting.

I want to win the game and make her mine again... Most of the time. She doesn't have to let me win, because games are only fun when you can actually lose once in a while.

Something with it clicked for her and with this way of explaining, she seemed to enjoy it. She snapped back from pulling away from the talk of sharing her to setting the rules of the game. I'm going to get a bit of a head start with my tongue, but at some point she's going to pull out my phone and open the tinder app with the profile we made for her, start swiping and attempt to set up an immediate date. If she can get a date set up for the same night before I make her beg for my dick, I'll have to wait until she gets back from the date to try again.

Game on.