How deep is the psychology on this stuff? I want a partner to cuck me. I was married for over a decade and she wasn’t interested. At its most basic level, our marriage ended in a round about way because of my fantasy.

I’ve been in two long-term, serious relationships with women who aren’t interested. If I’m being honest I divested pretty hard in the first relationship when I learned she wasn’t interested. I haven’t divested from my current relationship but I fear that could happen at an unconscious level. It seems like the relationship has to progress to a certain point before I feel comfortable talking about it with a partner and the response in my most serious relationships has been the same. I did have one partner indulge the fantasy and we had a really good time but we didn’t date very long and broke up for unrelated reasons. Now I am in an otherwise perfect relationship with someone I love and trust and she isn’t interested. I know many people just keep working on their partner and hoping she will change her mind but that’s not me.

My current partner is a total pleaser and our relationship couldn’t be better. I really believe that if she was interested at all, she would do it, because she is explorative, fun, and a very sexual woman. We have done some fantasy role playing stuff which she is great at and bought cum lube to play with (highly recommended). 😂

So back to the original question. How deep is this stuff. Can someone with an overwhelming cuck desire just change? I’m not really entertaining breaking things off with my partner, but is there a world where it comes to that?

I want to reiterate that I think it’s critical to respect people’s boundaries and sometimes I read things on here that make me cringe a little. If she’s not willing to chose to do it on her own volition, it’s not right to push the issue. How successful have some of you been at silencing the urge to see your partner with someone else?