My gf and I have been discussing cuckolding for almost a year. Mostly my fantasy that she historically was against for al the common reasons. Months ago she was eaten out by a bull who was fantastic and they chatted over Kik and I watched. She sent him photos and flirted and it was great fun.

Things seemed to fizzle out for reasons I’m not sure, possibly from the bulls side. However, as we consider moving forward with it I’m having concerns about if we should. My gf is monogamous and does not enjoy the idea of a one-night-stand. However she is interested if she can flirt and build an emotional connection with someone. Which originally I thought meant building a basic relationship so it wasn’t a foreign person inside her, which makes sense.

Recently however she mentioned that she’s afraid this hurts our relationship, and she said she could “fall for someone” because she acts impulsively and had a hard time managing her emotions. She can’t control who she loves. Then, however, she said “but if that happens I guess what’s meant to be is meant to be” — which really shocked me for some reason. We’ve been together for almost 3 years and I see this as a fun explorative thing to do but she’s seemingly open to the possibility of leaving me if she meets someone better. Which scares me for our relationship, which I thought wasn’t going anywhere.

Should we not risk cuckolding? Are there any boundaries we can set in place so she doesn’t fall for someone? If she DOES fall for someone and wants to be with them should I let her go to be happy?

Thanks for reading! If you need any other information please ask. Just looking for some advice and guidance.