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Had some internal conflict again... Need your opinion.
- Is it worth it to play cuckold all the time?
- Is it worth it to give up my right and/or privilege for sex in my marriage?
- Is it worth it to give up my need and want for regular sex?
- I kinda lost a lot of self confidence. I wished someone would look at me and show desire for me.
And our Bull’s response....
I understand. Really. But to your questions, my opinion: 1. Cuckold is not a game which we play once in a while. You are a cuckold. That's a character, not a temporary thing. 2. That's part of it. You must accept that you gave it up. This way, you'll soon find peace of mind. It's only sex. 3. That's a similar question like 2 and I think yes, it's worth it, to get to another level of happiness. Which is not defined by sex but by your relationship. 4. I think it's normal. Your only source of self confidence is currently your family as you're locked down. That's very difficult. And I know that your family needs you. Everything can give you this required self confidence. The only thing is that I don't want her to have sex with you. It's only the sex part! Try to separate this from the rest and you'll be fine.
What do you think guys?
For me being in a cuckold relationship is not something we turn on and off. It is our relationship. That said, my wife and I have a good understanding of what we both want from cuckolding, individually and as a couple. This took years of talking about things that were very hot, things that pissed me off, & things she didn't like or want. I still get surprised by jealousy or angst on occasion but I always talk about it with her. I trust that we both keep our best interest as a couple priority number 1.
If surrendering sex in your marriage is part of your cuckold relationship that works for you both then great. Many cucks willingly embrace chastity and love it. There is typically a mental component from the hotwife when she locks her husband. Helps fill the needs of her husband, maintain the bond of the relationship and confirm her control.
A healthy Cuckolding relationship will definitely have moments of jealousy, bliss, doubts and confirmation. The solid foundation of your relationship will allow you to explore these emotions together.
If it isn't something your comfortable with then don't hesitate to tell her
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You should try and explain that your telling her because you entered in this cuckold relationship for each other. Prioritizing your relationship first. The way it is currently doesn't work for you. She needs to work on understanding how you feel, that's on her. All you can do is be open and honest