If you’ve ever played a sport you’ve heard a coach degrade you with light humiliation to improve your performance. And it works! It angers you and might even hurt, but that pain gets channeled into action as you try to prove yourself to them by doing better.

Cuckolding feels similar. If my gf would say something like “cmon little bitch, fuck me like you mean it” I would get really turned on and want to do it. Even if she said “you’re going to have to try a lot harder to compare to my exes big cock” I might feel hurt a little because I can’t control my size but it would motivate me to do better regardless.

Have any other cuckolds been in a situation where an authority figure (boss, parents, teachers, coaches) would degrade them or humiliate them (not sexually) in order to improve performance?

I’m curious if there is any link to cuckolding.