I’ll preface this with by saying that obviously there’s no standard in this dynamic so everyone enjoys it differently. My wife and I were talking about how we used to only go see bulls at hotels when we started and how much he loathed it and have since decided that if it’s someone she is used to seeing or has seen often, they just come to our house and it’s perfect for us. When she’s meeting a potential bull for the first time or having a one night stand we usually get a hotel room or she will go to his place if it isn’t a spur of the moment thing. Obviously, we make sure she feels safe being alone with him and I always know where she is and there’s constant contact but even then, we would prefer the bull just come to us. I’m just curious how others in this lifestyle prefer seeing bulls or how bulls prefer seeing couples!