So my wife and I have had a cuckold fantasy for years now. We’ve never had an experience but we’ve discussed it a lot. About a year ago she ended up hooking up with a coworker without my consent. She came clean immediately and we worked things out. I told her if she communicated things I would have been less upset.

Fast forward a year later and we still fantasize about things but she still doesn’t have interest in a real life cuckold experience. Now I find out she has been texting with a guy she met at the gym.

Looking for advice on how to handle this. It’s confusing because she seems interested but is certain she doesn’t want to experience our fantasy but her actions say otherwise.