So, my wife and I have some experience with cuckolding at swingers clubs, with me there watching, or being told about it if she’s playing alone.

It turns out that she’s not actually that into the shared experiences though and wants to only play by herself now. She’s open to telling me about it sometimes, but that’s it.

Ultimately she likes the freedom of being able to do things on her own and have her own experiences, and likes the idea of being able to keep them private. I was initially not super into that idea, but then as we were talking about it one time she basically said “I thought this was supposed to be about me doing what I want."

Now, of course I KNOW that it’s really supposed to be about us both getting what we want - but her saying it in that way definitely activated my “cuck sub” mind, and since then I’ve actually been much more okay with and even into the idea. It makes me feel WAY more jealous than any time I’ve been there, but I also think this could be fun.

Just curious if there are guys here who have done this sorta style before - either not there at all, or even not sharing the details afterwards. How do you stay connected about it all? Any tips on keeping it fun and exciting?