My wife was a virgin when we met, I am still the only one she has been with. We are talking about exploring the lifestyle ( only during sex, not at the drive in to work) but she seems apprehensive or uncomfortable. Not sure if it was her religious upbringing or not…

Are there any ladies who were virgins and then with their first partner got involved in the lifestyle, or any men who were married to one and the same situation?

I’d really be curious to know what you went through when you processed this and decided to go from a stance of, oh, I’d never do that to hey, when can we do that again?

Also, if you would like to share any discussion tips or topics that would be great too. Thanks!