My wife and I are a married couple in our late 20s and early 30s. We got married young, and while she was my first sexual partner, she had one prior relationship before meeting me. During the COVID lockdowns, we started exploring our sexual fantasies together. We dabbled in light BDSM, tried playing with another couple over Snapchat (which didn't work out), and posted pictures on Reddit, enjoying the raunchy comments.

We discovered that my wife was interested in the hotwife lifestyle, and we found a dominating bull online who gave her daily attention and tasks to complete. With my encouragement, she became more comfortable being sexually playful with another man over Snapchat. We would share chat histories and explicit photos, which became our favorite bedroom activity for a while. However, as time passed, dirty talking and sharing online started to feel like a chore, so we reverted to our vanilla sex life as COVID restrictions eased.

In late 2021 and early 2022, I started looking for potential matches for an MFM threesome, which my wife had expressed interest in. We eventually found a compatible partner named Jack on Reddit, who was new to the lifestyle like us. Our first meetup was an erotic four-hand massage for my wife, followed by passionate oral sex with both of us. Over the next few months, we had exciting MFM threesomes that all three of us enjoyed.

As we continued to explore, my wife wanted a solo night with Jack, which I supported wholeheartedly. This meant she was embracing her sexuality and acting on her desires without hesitation. They recorded the entire session which is the hottest home made porn I have ever seen. My wife was my own personal pornstar and she loved performing for me.

Things were progressing well and spring of 2022 we took a trip to Temptations Resort in Cancun (a clothing-optional lifestyle-friendly resort). Although we didn't go there with specific intentions or expectations about playing with others. We wanted to enjoy a party resort and get a feel of what’s it’s like to be with likeminded people. We enjoyed the party atmosphere there and socially connected with two couples but didn’t play with anyone. It was a fun little vacation and we came back home satisfied with the experience.

After returning from vacation, my wife lost interest in connecting with our friend Jack. Despite his kind and respectful nature, she found their conversations repetitive and unexciting. I, on the other hand, was always enthusiastic about having him over, as it meant a fun night for all three of us. We eventually told him that we couldn't continue due to personal reasons.

Summer 2022 was a challenging time for us, as we faced some relationship issues along with stress from my wife's new job and our condo move. Our sex life had become stagnant for a brief period but eventually reignited but as vanilla sex. While it was satisfying for both of us, I felt that there was more to explore.

Over the past two years, we've focused on strengthening our relationship and achieving stability in life but steered clear from any sexual deviance.

On New Year's Eve, after drinking at a party (which is rare for us), my wife hinted at wanting to spice things up by expressing her desire for another man to play with. At the time, I dismissed it as possibly being influenced by alcohol.

However, over the past few weeks, she's been subtly hinting at wanting more. Yesterday, during intense sex, I asked her if she'd like another MFM session. Her body language changed instantly; she became extremely aroused gushing and squirting all over as I continued to dirty talk about having another man pleasure her, she reached ecstasy then timidly expressed her desire for an MFM threesome.

I'm thrilled that she's opening up again to exploring her desires despite still being timid about it. However, I'm also concerned about potential negative impacts on our relationship dynamics.

As excited as I am about fulfilling her desires (which genuinely makes me happy), I'm hesitant about introducing changes that could affect our relationship negatively. I am thinking about new fantasies to explore together (such as playing with another couple or FMF), I worry that expressing these desires to her might discourage my wife or make her regret bringing up the idea of an MFM threesome in the first place.

The purpose of sharing this experience is to seek opinions and suggestions from the community on how to navigate this situation effectively. I want to ensure that she feels supported without feeling pressured into compromising or pursuing something solely because of my interests. Based on past observations I feel that my wife might not be fond of exploring other fantasies especially with another couple or introducing another female for an FMF threesome. I loved it when she is the center of attention and would gladly support her MFM fantasy as I did in the past even if she is not comfortable with exploring beyond that.

In essence: should I express my own desires now that my wife has brought up hers? Might this overwhelm or make her regret initiating this conversation? Am I overthinking this situation?