My (m24) girlfriend(f23) made our first big step toward this about a month ago, right after she turned 23 she felt like she was ready to try a threesome. We had a friend in mind but when we went to visit, he had a girlfriend with him and was not a good vibe with her like he normally was. When we returned from the trip we had a lot of dirty talk about finding a dominant third for New Years. This was early December.

I made a couple Reddit posts and did some vetting and she eventually picked out someone she thought was attractive. She and him sexted on Snapchat and they had hot chemistry. We kinda rushed a little and made plans to meet new years, but then my gf got a bit sick and the guy got a bit sad she didn’t want to sext for a bit (cause she was sick). That was a turn off for us and we stepped away from him because of it.

It’s been about a month since this happened and she hasn’t talked about trying it again or anything related. I don’t want to bring it up and be annoying about it, so where would you go from here?