I have had a cuckolding/hotwife fantasy since before I met my wife. I was always scared to bring it up to her because I was afraid of how she would react and boy did she react just how I thought she would. I told her that I thought it was really hot and before I could even ask how she felt about it she shut it down completely. She said think like " I hope that not something you are into, because I am not doing that" and " that isn't something married people should do" and it does on and on. We haven't spoken since yesterday when I told her and I don't know what to do. I still have the cuckolding fantasy that I want to make a reality but I'm not gonna push it on her, maybe I should have brought it up when we started dating instead of years later but it's too late for that. I would appreciate any advice on what to do from here.