My wife (31) and I (32) have been together for 11 years (married for the last 2). To keep things short and sweet, our relationship started off with me being a jealous type who did not like any guys flirting with her or any of her exes showing up to events we were at. We both had sexual partners before we started dating and there was a brief split in between the 11 years where she dated someone else and likewise I did to. Anyway. About 5 years ago, we started opening up about some of our past experiences(a sex quiz online helped spark the conversations.) this led to both of us revealing that we would actually find it hot to watch eachother hook up with someone else respectively and many stories detailing our past partners and sexual experiences. This of course escalated to joking around about who we think is hot(celebrities)(randoms)(mutual acquaintances) etc. at one point we did decide to chat with people online(single men, single women and couples) but we were always too nervous to make the actual leap and meet with people to fuck. This sort of died down for a little because life and stress and everything in between. Now the past year or so, we have sparked it up again. Talking about fucking other people, she has a few large dildos(her ex was hung) and I love watching her use them on herself. Last purchase we made was a flesh light. She likes watching me use it on myself while she uses the dildo on herself. We have sex every once in awhile but it’s almost like she prefers to use the dildo while I fuck the flesh light. The other night while we were both masturbating next to eachother, I told her “I wanna watch the real thing fuck you” she moaned “yeah?” And came all over the dildo. That’s kinda where I’m at, am I close? Am I far? If so, what’s in store next….