From reading other people’s posts, it seems like there are 2 common trends in upbringing I have noticed. This mostly has to do with how you were in your teen years

1. Invisible to Females: this is the category I believe I fit in. In high school, I had no girl friends. Almost never talked to girls, was afraid of girls, and just seemed nonexistent to girls. I think I began to fetishize this almost rejection. You were most likely shy all around, but with girls you just completely shut off.

2. IDGAF: the other category I see a lot of is men who did get a lot of pussy growing up, we’re confident and everything. Now they continue to not care what other people think, and just do whatever they want, and in that case they want their gf/wife to cuckold them because who cares what anyone else thinks.

Do you think you fit in one of these generalizations or did you grow up differently?