Does anyone else see it this way or at least likes to think about this dynamic in terms of the other man being “better”? Now I put better in quotations cause obviously this stuff doesn’t define our value, however, there are certain tangibles and facts in which make a man more desirable in bed and even in life.

A man who’s tall, handsome, does well with money, very good in bed (which spreads in rumors from girl to girl), funny, and dominant will always attract more woman than a shorter, shy, slim, quite and non assertive guy. That is just a fact.

Obviously these aren’t the end all be alls, as I always point out, our wives picked us for a reason, because we’re who we are and they love that person. However, that doesn’t mean another man isn’t better in other things, but he’ll never be able to be a better me, which is why I’ll always have my wife.

I just think it’s fun, especially to hear from my wife, who is being honest and not doing it for my pleasure (I always make it clear to never do or say anything just for me, I want her to really mean it) about how another man is better than me. Whether he’s hotter, has a nicer body, smart, etc. it’s so hot to get in a woman’s head like that

Do you guys think of these things? “Bulls” (in quotes cause I hate the terminology in this community), do you enjoy being seen as better? Do you get off on that power dynamic?