Me [M] and my fiancé [F] have been dipping our toes into the cuck lifestyle in hotels on drunken nights out in recent years. I have encouraged F to find a regular bull that we can push boundaries with, and she’s slowly started to gravitate towards one guy. She brings him home more than 50% of the time if she’s out drinking, and fucks him on our couch whilst I sleep (sometimes try to listen) upstairs. More recently I have been encouraging her to spend more time with him sober and develop more of a relationship with him to help move things on and explore. The bull has offered to take her to sporting events and go to a local sauna with her, which she jokingly tells me she is going to. However, she never goes through with it and makes poor excuses. We have 2 kids but I’m more than happy to keep them occupied whilst she sneaks out to play. Maybe I need to keep slowly chipping away at the situation, but any advice to spur things on would be greatly appreciated??

P.S. we have a good and satisfying sex life, cuck was my idea because I find it a turn-on and F was up for exploring.