I am curious as we are about to restart our lifestyle after a very long break. The lifestyle before was more of a fun deviation in life where she was getting the sex I wasnt really providing or couldnt and maybe i would call it more hotwifing than cuckolding as she always went solo. Anyways, we did it and then stopped. But all this is background to suggest now this time, we are almost empty nesters and our conversations went from maybe someday to Soon! Her main hang up is being middle aged and she doesnt feel like being rejected so slow start and hot and cold but again I digress on our restart. Only thing that seems sure is its going to happen but the timeline and how we get there is vague so I feel again a wannabe but with experience, lol.

But my question is we never have discussed cages and I just bought one. I am wondering how do women feel about them if the husband is one pushing it or if she were to one day just find it on me, how is she likely to react? If I ask her she is likely to give me the weirdo look and Im scared of that you are weird look even though she seems to have accepted me as a cuck or she talks about men like she doesnt need my permisssion to have them f they hit on her but still, she has always treated me with respect and some reverence so feels lke she might see me as pathetic with this move? Thoughts