Some of you have talked to me about my posts with my situation. I’m recently married (literally this past weekend), and my wife and I have had this fantasy for over a year now. Our main focus has been my best friend Dan, who my wife is head over heals for and eager to fuck one day

I’ve talked to many about this, including her, in why he attracts so many women, including my own wife. Girls flock to the guy and I’ve always spent time critically thinking about it. It simply comes down to that he does well in all categories in life. He’s very attractive, good in bed, makes great money, charismatic, funny and smart, etc.

I’m attractive and do well for myself but in all categories he exceeds me in every way. It’s hard to compare to a man of his status. This isn’t a self deprecating post or anything, but objectively these things are true to a point. The reason my beautiful wife picked me is because of the intangible quality of love, but other than that I’m sure she’d be with a man like him.

Now all this to say, talking to a man like Dan is an absolute thrill. Dan obviously doesn’t know about our fantasy yet so I haven’t talked to him but other guys like him on here, I’ve spoken with “bulls” (hate the term, I just like to describe them as more dominant or simply better) on here and it’s honestly so fucking hot. Especially when you meet a bull that’s also fun to get along with, but to compare yourself to them in different ways and how life has been different and how different women react to you and him.

Has anyone else done this? It’s always eye opening and fun to discuss with a man on the other side of the spectrum in terms of this fantasy/kink