So something that has happened to us a few times now is what we are calling “the pull back”. There have been a few occasions now where during text phase the guy seems to have no issue with my wife being married and to take a few pics or record. Then the meet up will happen just to meet, and she will usually meet alone, at a bar or something, with me on apple location tracking her just in case. She prefers to meet alone because she says a 6’4” 210 pound guy can look a bit intimidating. She will come home saying the meet was good, he was very touchy and stuff, and they are gonna plan a time to link up, or if the night permits, and my wife is feeling like it, they might hook up that night with everything seeming fine. But then the guy pulls back, his responses are 1 word, or non at all. He is no longer trying to really communicate yet alone flirt. We found out from a few as weeks or even months past, as she would reach out and ask what happen or they might just randomly text one day, that it’s trigger by fear, fear that she is trying to maybe set them up, or that she is lying and she wants to just cheat. So the question is, what going on, and what are ways to help make sure this isn’t something that’s an issue