Got here as the result of her one-time affair in our 10 year marriage. Therapy and all that. We’re on the other side and settling into our roles. Verbal humiliation is escalating. We communicate well and I am comfortable with what is being said, just surprised to hear it and surprised how much I actually like it.

In my smallest cage she had me try to fuck her while she watched me whimper and struggle. After about a minute or so of me rubbing her labia, she laughs out loud and says “you like a fucking Bitch! Where’s your cock, fag? Fuck me faggot let’s go.”

Never heard her speak to me like this or ever imagined it would be this real. She is still 50/50 on putting me in chastity and leaves it up to me. I typically choose it due to it making me feel more comfortable but I’m starting to get concerned with how much control she will actually take and where that will put me in my role. It’s one thing to fantasize but when it lands on you as hard as this has, it’s a little scary and uncertain looking forward.

Appreciate hearing from those who are experienced. I know it is all about communication - I have a Queen who is often quite different in regular mode vs horny mode. When in regular mode, she wants little to do with the LS. But when turned on, it’s full-on. So it’s sometimes hard to talk directly if you get the vibe.