This is probably the right sub for this topic, my fiancé (27F) has jokingly told me since this summer that passed, her (49M) co-worker has been kind of flirting with her.

He hasn’t said anything sexual or outrageous, just light flirting and compliments, she would catch him staring at her during the summer in the office when she wore more summer attire, he’s apparently not been creepy or anything, she thinks it’s harmless and thinks he’s handsome for his age (she knows I’m not the jealous type, she knows that she’ll get guys trying to chat to her if she goes on nights out).

She first told me in the summer, in a joking way so I haven’t really been bothered about it until she recently bought it up again like 2-3 weeks ago, I’ve now started mentioning it to her as a joke like “how’s work hubby”, this is when I realised I may have developed a slight cuck kink about this whole situation.

As I said before, it’s nothing serious and just light flirty banter at this point and he hasn’t said anything sexual or crazy, she seems to find it comical.

Overtime, it’s starting to turn me on a bit, I never had these feelings before, not sure how they’ll develop, I’m just teasing her about it at the moment but nothing serious and she does not know how I feel (turned on) about the situation.

She’s attractive, goes to the gym, not a slut or anything, just seems like a unique situation that’s been building up with me.

Would like to hear people’s thoughts or experiences in anything similar, I could probably explain more but I can’t be bothered to type out every single detail, thanks for reading this far!