I have been slowly introducing the idea of my gf fucking someone else and so far she has been receptive and not necessarily opposed. The conversation gets scary for her whenever the topic of actually meeting a prospect in person comes up.

How do you break the ice and get comfortable with someone when you meet them in person for the first time? We’re not heavy drinkers and not into clubs/bars, so public isn’t necessarily a great option and we don’t live in a heavily populated area and want to avoid people we know.

If you have company over for the first time, how do you build tension and crush the awkwardness in a way that is natural and isn’t cliche (I.e. stripopoly or other games)?