Hi all,

I'll try to keep this brief - mostly looking for direction and advice.

Over the past year or so, I (26M) have been having a recurring dream that is starting to become something I think about all the time. The short version of the dream is: I dare my fiance (25F) (we'll call her Carly) to go on some random video chat thing (think like Omegle or Chatroulette or whatever) and flash a guy. She does it while I watch - in some of the dreams, she sexts with these random dudes she met on the video chat thing while I watch and provide input; like a group chat where I just watch her sext.

It never becomes anything physical or in real life. Honestly, when I think about a "cuckold" scenario in real life (where she actually has sex with another guy), I don't like that. It's just this video chat thing. I keep having this dream and I wake up rock hard or sometimes even have a wet dream (which is crazy because I haven't had one since I was like 12).

It's so weird because it's out of nowhere. We have a very, very vanilla sex life - absolutely nothing kinky at all. I've asked her about whether she has any kinks or fantasies, and she has always responded that she does not. We've been together for 8 years and engaged for a year, so I feel like we have the type of relationship where she would be honest with me and tell me if she really did have a fantasy. In all honesty, I probably could honestly say I had no kinks/fantasies either up until these dreams started happening.

The short of it is: I'm afraid to approach her about this. I worry she will judge or think less of me. I am a "manly" dude (for lack of a better term, but I mostly mean fit, tall, into woodworking and hunting and fishing, etc., guy shit), and that's the type of thing that she is attracted to. I am worried that this fantasy will be incompatible with her view of me, and that even mentioning it will be a major issue - as I said, we have a very vanilla sex life so asking her to live out that recurring dream in real life would be a huge ask.

What do I do? Is there anyone else here who is purely into "digital" cuckolding and isn't significantly turned on by the thought of their wife/gf/fiance actually having sex in real life with another guy? Is there anything I could approach her with that might be able to scratch this itch without asking her to show her body to guys? I've considered roleplaying or something, but it's not something she has ever done and with how vanilla/sexually inexperienced she is I have doubts that she'd even be receptive to that.

Thanks in advance, happy to answer any questions!