My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 years now. We have made love, had a lot of sex, masturbate, go to strip clubs and both get lap dances, and watch porn together so we definitely worked our comfort level and communication in bed to a very safe and comfortable environment. She's not only confessed that she's bi-curios but has also even sort of gotten more into it, she loves watching lesbian porn or mff threesomes and I love it! Definitely encourage her in her kinks. A while back I asked my girlfriend out of pure curiosity if she'd be interested in having a dildo which she simply wasn't. I then asked her if she could buy one just for the heck of it. After visiting our local sex store a few times I asked her "Are you sure you don't want a dildo?" For which she stated that she would if I wanted her to. I did, so she got one. We used it that night but I remember it was simply something new to us, we didn't really use it to its capacity you know? A few months go by and one time in one of our play sessions where we masturbate I usually grab our little sex toys bag and I gave her the vibrator and the dildo and she started to suck it while using the vibrator and I have been hooked since then! It started like that, I would tell her that she looked so hot sucking her dildo, then we'd have sex and while I was inside she'd start sucking it or l'd penetrate her with the dildo while she was giving me a blowjob. At first I was a little worried she was doing it more for me than for her but she started making remarks after she'd finish like "that was hot." About a year and a half ago I started to talk dirty to her while watching porn like "you like that guys dick" to what she'd reply "yes" then when she'd use the dildo I started to say "is he fucking you good baby" and she typically replies along the lines of "he's fucking me so good baby" or if she was at climax "I'm going to come on that dick" referring to the dildo... gets me rock hard. I now absolutely want to share her and/or watch her get fur v and join in on the fun, simply turns me on like nothing else. Two nights ago we tried something new... I asked her if we could role play the scenario was: I was in our living room and she was in our bed with the vibrator and dildo and she'd tell me come in when she wanted to and then l'd watch her play with herself and "him." She stated she'd feel more comfortable if I just stayed in the room instead. So, I asked her to watch porn and she found a video she liked, I whispered in her ear "I want you to imagine that that guy is fucking you" I then sat in her vanity chair stroking myself while she played with herself with the dildo and vibrator and as we talked dirty. She came and immediately after she did I got into bed on top of her in missionary style and whispered "did he fuck my baby good?" To which she was moaning "yes" and I stuck my dick inside and said "it's daddy's turn" and I would continue to ask her stuff like that or tell her "fuck he left your pussy just right for me" which she would go along with. Needless to say we both came really hard and her remarks afterwards were positive. She stated that it was wild but that it was incredibly hot! I know my girlfriend and I know she's not ready for the real thing yet, you know to be actually be shared and I would never push her. I want it to come from her and I want this to be something that we are fully comfortable and prepared for instead of being selfish and pushing such things on her. Trying to do things the right way. Personally, I think we are at a good spot but I want to ask you guys/gals what you think, are we headed on the right direction? Also, feel free to throw in any thoughts/ opinions. Thanks!