My wife has been wanting an open relationship for awhile and wants to get into this. She's the one who always brings it up. We have conversations about it probably a few times a month and get all excited but then the conversation usually just stalls out. Lately though it seems like she's more open to actually doing it. (again, by her own command, I don't bring it up or press her on it at all)

She has a super high sex drive and It seems like she's just kinda bored and wants more excitement in that department.

She's also expressed she wants bigger men, I'm on the average side.

Just curious from couples that have been through this what to expect the first time, what was the full experience like? Would love to hear from your personal experiences