So, in previous posts I have shared that we are relatively new to all this although have swung previously. For context: Together 19 years; Wife initiated wanting to see other men; One bull experience and her going on a couple off dates.

I am curious about how others have experienced this evolving with the wife.

Mine is not shy or coy. But, she was insistent on needing a good connection before progressing. Also had strict criteria around money under 35. We are 50.

Yesterday she shared that she had changed her dating app profile and was chatting to two young guys (27) and wants to meet them (separately). And wants to alone as she is really clear it would be purely sex.

I think this is awesome and was a bit surprised too. We talked and she said she is feeling ever more confident and wants to play out a cougar role.

I am looking forward to how she will evolve and own this further. Anyone relate to this?