Sorry this may be long. To the point my wife and I have discussed this lifestyle a lot. Its definitely more my fantasy then hers at the moment. We discussed communication rules ect. Were this is different then the normal cuckold LS I guess is that I will be involved throughout but not at every moment obviously. I would be more of the slave for them ect. She seems into and talked about what she likes and wants ect. We even tried this past weekend on a cruise but the guy backed out last minute which didn't help as my wifes biggest fear is rejection. I created this post for honest answers experiences for her to read and hopefully help her and possibly resure somewhat. Some answers may be things we haven't thought of or something we should reconsider and talk about ect. If you have any experience or opinions of the below please share. Also any thing like your pros and cons are welcomed. We have used similar post in our discussions before. Below is what her concerns and fears are as well as mine.

Hers: 1. While she is beautiful and perfect for me she is I guess what you would call thick or chubby. Her biggest fear is rejection.

1. Even though we have discussed this at length she is afraid of me being jealous or what I think.

2. Keeping this LS private

3. Kind of afraid of feelings as she said she has to have a emotional connection.

Mine:

1. Yes we have talked alot about this but she says she is into it and really does seem to be but at times I get the feeling she is doing this bc I want to.

2. She will see me differently. This is bc I want to be a slave and humilated. Want to be forced / told to do a few bi things. Sounds crazy but I'm a Alpha type normally and have no desire for men in anyway. Other than in this scenario.

3. I want this to be awesome for her and for her to get great sex. Something i don't feel I'm great at. so my fear is guy talks a great game and can't last more than a minute.

Again any advice and experiences welcomed. Even if it's something I didn't mention and you think would be beneficial or helpful. Thanks and sorry for the long post