I had the hotwife and later the cuck kink for 40 years until 2014 when I had a traumatic brain injury. The TBI reset me down to bare wires and with so many other things, the kink was gone. I became a gentle observer of life.

One wife I had fucked another guy a couple of times and I was there and it just wasn't that hot. I think it was because in both instances, it was slow 'married sex' which was boring (to me). I wanted my next wife to get a BF or multiple BFs. The thought of being humiliated in this way was intoxicating and addictive. A few months before the marriage ended, she agreed and was looking forward to it. It never materialized due to serious instability in the relationship.

Now that it's gone, I'm a bit of a crusader for women whose partners are intent on persuading them to engage in the lifestyle even when they've expressed consistent disinterest, fear and apprehension.

Not for me but I still think the lifestyle and kink are hot and the women and men who can navigate its emotional turns and remain in love, my hat's off to you! I know you're many in number and post rarely.