Hey!

So my wife and I started young (it was something I had dreamt about since I was about 21, and I confessed my desire to my wife about 3 months after our wedding). Just for background it took a few years before we took the plunge, had lots of ups and downs with it but we found our groove, and I was the proud husband of a woman who had a few flings, but most amazingly, also eventually had boyfriends she was exclusive with. We paused our activities 10 years ago- her boyfriend moved abroad and it affected her, and also we went on to have children.

So here we are 10 years later- more settled down, a little heavier (and therefore shyer). I’ve always wanted her to get back into it but she’s felt self conscious about her weight (she’s not big, she just isn’t a UK size 8 anymore!).

She met a guy on a night out with a friend- she knows I’ll always want to be cucked again. So She did make out with him. Her friend thinks it’s a “what he doesn’t know won’t hurt him” thing as far as her being married goes. So the guy also knows she’s married but thinks I don’t mind- it sounds like he thinks we have an open marriage (we don’t!).

So anyway- finally I’ll get to my point. They had a more formal date, and I helped her pick an outfit. I basically picked things a 25 year old woman would wear. She was so dubious, as her dress was quite small. So they did have their date in Bromley (London). I guess she didn’t fully remember how he looked as she did meet him at a pub, but basically he was a lot hotter than she remembered. She sent a pic on the date and yeah, he was really handsome, and very tall.

He absolutely loved the outfit, was all over her, super attentive. At the end of the date, he wanted to take her home but she insisted on coming home- not least as the kids would need her in the morning. They kissed in the car, and he pulled her dress down so she was topless. But no sex, which has been the source of some very hot sexting between them. One of the messages from him said that he will not be accepting this next time and that their next date will be at his house!

Now it’s been 3 weeks and we are trying to arrange the date. We have it this weekend coming, and she wants help to look and feel her best for her first extra marital sex in 10 years.

So we need inspiration to prepare her. I don’t know what to dress her in- she says he did enjoy the short dress- but this time it’s at his home, and it’s over night.

So. She will be getting her legs waxed, and nails done. We prefer her natural for pubes. What colours would be nice? Ferrari red?! Is that still in? She is 43, he is 32. What shoes or clothes?! She doesn’t have many sexy clothes at the moment, or lingerie that fits. Equally- she doesn’t necessarily want to be in honey birdette on a second date. I felt something crotchless does indicate to him that she’s trying to please him (she is submissive in the bedroom to boyfriends). What to put in her bag? We used to pack breath mints, condom, make up, wipes. What should she wear if she stays over all night.

Any tips or ideas on outfit or preparation? Ways to make it hotter for them (and me when I hear about it later). She really enjoyed feeling a little slutty, his entire demeanour changed when she took her coat off. She also really gets on with the guy- she is more suited to a regular boyfriend, so she wants to keep him keen.