I’m curious to know if you all would agree with me and would like to discuss the idea of this. For you, is there any truth to the matter that there are men just better than you in every category? And that you’ve realized this early on and that’s part of why you have this fantasy?

For example, My fiancée and I have been talking about this whole “cuck/hotwife” for about a year now. We’re getting married soon but it’s honestly been the only thing on our minds when we get horny recently.

The main focus of our fantasy revolves around my good friend Dan, he’s a girl’s wet dream. He’s tall, successful, charismatic and can control a room, and my fiancée is crazy about him.

I’ve never seen her so horny than when we role play and fantasize together. Or the effort she puts into her appearance when she knows he’s gonna be around. We’ve talked about it endlessly and it’s so hot.

However what drives me the most crazy is that there’s some truth to why she feels this way. He’s hotter, he’s physically just bigger in every way, he’s more successful. The rumor is he’s amazing in bed. Yes she’s with me because she loves me, but that’s it. Yes that’s all that matters, but she knows, and I know, he’s just better, just objectively better in mostly every way besides the fact her and I are in love.

It’s just so hot to think about, that I can try and be equal in every way, I could work out as much as possible or try and work hard to make more money but I could never match him.

Thats what gets me the most. I can’t compare, to him or another man like him. So what about you guys? Have you thought through this? The biological and psychological reasons for why women want certain men?